Month: April 2021

Maybe you set some goals in January, or some other time. How is it going? If you are like most people, the initial rush of motivation wears off and you find yourself right back at the starting line, thinking “I really need to get back on track”. Knowing what to do is one thing, but doing it is another. With the right mindset and a little bit of understanding, you can programme your mind for success the easy way.

There is no better time than now to re-focus, reset your priorities and reboot your motivation.

Hypnotherapy and coaching work hand in hand to help you to achieve your goals with ease, getting your unconscious mind working for you, in the background. Automatic brain programmes run patterns at an unconscious level without us knowing it, so that we repeat the same old familiar patterns over and over, encouraging us to stay in our comfort zones. However, nothing changes until you change something. If you want to become better, stronger, emotionally resilient, calmer, more confident, give up smoking, lose weight, beat stress, or anything else you set your heart on, you need to push the boundaries and stretch yourself, stepping over the “you” that’s holding you back. A clear defined goal is the first step, add in mental rehearsal and sprinkle on a bit of creative visualisation, and you are almost there. Seal it with hypnosis and watch your success manifest before your eyes. Don’t wait for another year to go by. Learn how to programme your mind for success today.

“Do not wait; the time will never be ‘just right.’ Start where you stand, and work with whatever tools you may have at your command, and better tools will be found as you go along.” — George Herbert

Step 1 – Clarify

Start with clarity of mind by asking yourself some questions:

• “What do you really, really want to achieve?”
• “Why do you want it?”
• “When do you want to achieve it by”
• “What’s getting in the way of you achieving it already?”
• “What will success look like to you?”

Step 2 – Identify Your Personal Obstacles to Success

The things stopping you from achieving success already may take the shape of unconscious beliefs, thoughts, behaviour, attitude or environment. Ancient Chinese proverb says “Know thine enemy and you can win all battles”. What is your biggest enemy when it comes to self-sabotage?

• Psychological: Laziness; self-sabotage; negative attitude; self-doubt; lack of self discipline; mindlessness.
• Beliefs: Out-dated or unhelpful ideas about life, family, health, your abilities.
• Behaviours: Unhelpful habits; conditioned responses.
• Thoughts: Internal dialogue might be critical; self downing; unrealistic expectations; perfectionism.
• Environment: Following the crowd; spending time with the wrong type of people.
• Skills: Time management; problem solving; relaxation; effective planning.

Step 3 – Create an Empowering Vision

Having a clear and precise image in your mind of what exactly you really want engages the part of your brain that focusses on achieving your heart’s desire. What is your vision of success? What does it look like? How do you see yourself? What will you be doing? What will you be feeling? Who is there with you? What kind of things do you say to yourself in your own mind? What do you focus on? Take your time to answer these questions and fill in all the details.

Step 4 – Keep Your Eyes on The Prize

The intention is where you begin. Success is the destination. We need to start with the end in mind. Keep your eyes firmly fixed on the prize. There could be many different ways to get to where you want to go. You might want to take the fast road or the scenic route. The journey might be more important than the destination. It all depends on how you look at it. When you programme the Sat Nav in the car, you always start with the destination. This way, the car knows where to go. Your brain works in much the same way.

Step 5 – Create The Blueprint For Success

What are the ingredients of success? You can’t drive your car without learning the skill of driving. There are certain skills that will help you to achieve success. These include:

• Clear, precise, well defined goals – include as many details as you can;
• Effective communication – includes positive self talk and empowering language;
• Time management – schedule your day in a well-balanced way;
• Planning ahead – look at short term, medium and long-term goals;
• Problem solving abilities – break down every problem into bite size pieces and tackle one piece at a time;
• Self discipline – be your own coach and encourage yourself;
• Delayed gratification – you don’t have to have everything right now, take time to cherish the anticipation of reward;
• Taking responsibility/ownership of your problems – step into your power and take control of every aspect of your life;
• Willingness to change – if we don’t change we stagnate, look for areas and opportunities for improvement;
• Openness to challenge – be willing to challenge your thoughts and your ideas and your emotions, they are not fixed in stone;

Vision – take the long view, the scenic route and imagine where life could take you.Step 6 – Discover your Motivation

We are all motivated by different things. Motivation comes from reward or punishment, moving towards something or getting away from something. Some people like to have a carrot, others like the stick. The thing that motivates you gives you that push you need. If the goal is weight loss, for example, the carrot might be looking and feeling great, wearing your favourite clothes, having energy and zest for life, feeling attractive and at your best. The stick might be the fear of becoming really unhealthy, unfit and unable to do the things you like to do, feeling unattractive, becoming even heavier and having to buy even bigger clothes. Each one (carrot or stick) brings with it thoughts, feelings and images. The one that creates the most powerful feelings is usually the one that will motivate you more. However, the Law of Dominant Thought tells us that what we focus on the most, is what we move towards. Remember to keep your eyes on the prize. External motivation comes from others acknowledging your success, or receiving an award, or something that is outside of you. Internal motivation comes from within, like feeling proud of yourself and wanting to prove to yourself that you can do it.

Step 7 – Recognise and Challenge Your Excuses

The excuse I hear most often is “I haven’t got the time”. We all have 24 hours in the day and we do what we want or need to do. Work takes priority for most people. Work/life balance is crucial for health and when life is unbalanced something may eventually give. The signs of an unbalanced life might manifest as stress, physical illness, anxiety, depression or in the worst case complete physical and mental breakdown. Burnout is a state of mental, physical and emotional exhaustion caused by ongoing, excessive or prolonged stress. Feeling completely drained, unable to meet the constant demands of life, feeling overwhelmed, feeling emotionally drained, is a kind of super stress that leads to serious illness. Maybe it’s time to see the excuses you make to yourself and take a deep breath, look at your life objectively and take stock.

In reality, work often takes up more time than anything else in a day. 24 hours might be broken down into 10 hours work, 8 hours sleep, and there are six left for personal growth and relationships. Personal growth includes things like self knowledge, developing a positive attitude, setting goals, identifying our values and updating our belief systems. We all have inherent strengths and weaknesses and knowing what these are is a basis to improvement. Personal growth is a continuous path throughout life and if it becomes stagnant we can feel stuck, in a rut, on a treadmill or in an uncomfortable comfort zone.

Step 8 – Step Out of The Comfort Zone

Success can lead to freedom – freedom from the chains that bind us to old ways, the old feelings, the old behaviours – the old life. We often find ourselves in a comfort zone where we feel safe. The brain likes familiarity and we are designed to repeat the patterns of familiarity because we feel a certain sense of comfort in what we know. If we want to grow personally, we need to stretch the boundaries we place around ourselves. It might mean working harder, getting up earlier, helping others more, learning a new skill, or examining our relationships. Some relationships are toxic and some activities and behaviours are destructive. Are we a good role model or are we modelling ourselves on someone else? Are we living in the shadow of an overbearing parent and always trying to prove that we are good enough? Do we deserve to be the best version of ourselves? What drives us? A little bit of self reflection goes a long way. Maybe we are actually doing very well and deserve to acknowledge our success, or maybe we work too hard and neglect other important areas of our life.

Step 9 – No Death Bed Regrets

Become mindful of what your priorities are and where you put your energy. There will come a time when it’s all over. Beginnings and ends are inevitable, what we do in the middle is up to us. We don’t want to get to the end of our days regretting all the things we didn’t do, or prioritising the wrong things. Goal setting helps us to look at the long term vision as well as short term goals. Here are some of the things people regret, it might help you to plan ahead to include what’s really important, and spend your time wisely pursuing things of value, having worthwhile goals that you will be proud to achieve.

Death-Bed Regrets: According to Susie Steiner in her article in the Guardian on 1 February 2012, the top 5 death-bed regrets are listed below (extract):

(1) I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

“This was the most common regret of all. When people realise that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it.”

(2) I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.

“This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children’s youth and their partner’s companionship. Women also spoke of this regret, but as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence.”

(3) I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.

“Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result.”

(4) I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.

“Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.”

(5) I wish that I had let myself be happier.

“This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called ‘comfort’ of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content, when deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again.”

Step 10 – Make Sure Your Goals Are Worthwhile and Fit In To the Greater Plan of Your Life

Every goal is important in it’s own right. Each goal could be a stepping stone to a well balanced, healthy, happy life. Setting goals and reviewing them on a regular basis will help to keep us on track. Ultimately, life is like a sand timer, there are only so many grains of sand left. Rather than reacting to the challenges life throws at us, we could be working towards the ultimate goal – to live a meaningful, fulfilled, purposeful, happy and successful life that impacts positively on all those around us.

“A person without a vision for their future is doomed to perpetuate the habits of their present and the outcomes of their past.”

Put Yourself First, For A Change

We only have one life at a time, and it’s up to us to make it matter. Hypnotherapy and Coaching work hand in hand to give you the skills and tools you need to achieve success.

Why not put yourself first for a change? If you are interested in exploring some goals, I offer a free, no obligation, discovery session.

Let me help you to achieve those goals!

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Help For PTSD (Case Study)

It’s not only soldiers coming back from the war who suffer from PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder). It could happen to you or me.

PTSD is classed as an anxiety disorder. The stressor is unusually severe, outside of what we might think of as a typical human experience, and is psychologically traumatic.

Causes
The sufferer of PTSD might have been the victim of

• a life -threatening situation
• violence
• assault or rape
• mugging or robbery
• a serious road accident
• a traumatic birthing experienceOr, they might have
• been held prisoner or hostage
• suffered a severe health condition
• witnessed another person being mutilated or killed

If PTSD occurs within six months it is considered acute, after six months it is considered delayed.

Symptoms
Those with PTSD may typically suffer from

• flashbacks as they re-experience the events of the past;
• sleep disruption or recurring nightmares about the traumatic experience;
• intrusive compulsive thoughts that are overwhelming and cause unpleasant emotions;
• tension;
• difficulty in relaxing;
• irritability and anger;
• the inability to tolerate sudden loud noise;
• problems with concentration;
• memory problems;
• stress;
• depression;
• loss of sexual interest;
• feelings of isolation;
• withdrawal from social contact.

PTSD can have a detrimental effect on self-esteem and self-worth, with anxiety and panic attacks often a daily occurrence. They symptoms might ease off for a time and come back with a vengeance, out of the blue. The effects of PTSD may also stop a person from living a normal life, from putting themselves forward or speaking up, from having a meaningful relationship, or applying for a promotion at work, or even working at all.

Case Study using BrainWorking Recursive Therapy (BWRT):

I worked with a client called Debbie (not her real name) some time ago. Debbie was in her 30’s, had a great career, appeared very confident, was an excellent planner and communicator, a quick learner and was very organised.

She initially asked for help in overcoming claustrophobia and panic attacks. The initial consultation revealed that she had also suffered from a serious violent attack many years previously which still haunted her, and she had also been in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship which ended in a bitter divorce.

Debbie had suffered from anxiety and stress for many years but six months before seeing me started having panic attacks. She didn’t like lifts and this was getting to the point where she refused to go in one. Her sleep was disturbed so she didn’t feel refreshed on waking, she was having nightmares of being abducted and tortured, she was quick to anger, flying off the handle easily and using alcohol and food as a coping mechanism. This resulted in her putting on a lot of weight and she worried she may be drinking a bit too much.

Debbie had been determined to put the events of the past behind her so she pushed herself to achieve success in her career. She became a workaholic and didn’t socialise much. Although she could be assertive and “bossy” on occasions, she recently began to shy away from conflict, often becoming withdrawn or sinking into depression, but never let it be known to work colleagues. To other people she was confident and funny, but inside, Debbie was riddled with self-doubt, guilt and low self-worth. She didn’t know how she had become so successful because she believed at heart that she was not good enough, and in fact she didn’t deserve to be in the position that she was in. She was now feeling very stressed, she felt anxious with some people at work who were being passive aggressive towards her, and she was afraid she might have a panic attack. I wondered if she also suffered from Imposter Syndrome (a belief that you are really a fake and will be found out one day.)

Debbie felt she was stuck. She wanted to move forward but something was stopping her. She wanted a new relationship but was fed up with dating losers. She wanted to lose weight but knew that she was a comfort eater and used food to sooth her anxieties. She had now reached a point where she didn’t want to be the person she had become and she couldn’t see a way out of her current predicament without addressing the past. She was afraid she would always be alone, or she might suffer from some serious health problem. Although she was financially secure now, she didn’t know what might happen in the future. Debbie was living on high alert and she thought she might burn out. The flashbacks to the past were a regular occurrence.

Plan of Action
We identified several areas that needed attention. First up we needed to disable the traumas, then stop the panic attacks, treat the claustrophobia, build up her self-esteem, get rid of the Imposter Syndrome and only after that she would think about losing weight. We established some smart goals and worked together over a number of sessions.

BWRT is an excellent tool to disable the triggers that cause many emotional issues such as anxiety, anger, stress. Many of Debbie’s issues were anxiety based – PTSD, claustrophobia and panic attacks; stress and anger were also emotionally based. There was a lot of fear in her life.

PTSD can last for many years if left untreated. Trauma is like a roadblock in the mind, you try to move on, to move forward but the trauma stops you. It can be crippling, and even little things can trigger a panic attack. A sudden loud noise, an image, a song, a new relationship, a red ribbon. It could be anything that is associated in some way to a memory of a traumatic experience from the past.

Through the process of BWRT® Debbie was able to disable the traumas from her past, and relocate them to a place in her mind that was behind her, frozen in time, powerless. The fear was no longer at the edge of her awareness, ready to pounce when she least expected it. She discovered she had the ability to take back her power, to see things from a new perspective and she was no longer a victim. As a result, she was now able to stand up to the bullies at work, to speak her truth and to feel confident in her own skin. She began to respect herself in a way that she had never been able to before. She started to show herself compassion and kindness and this led to her being able to start loving herself for the first time.

Tears of Joy

Over the time we worked together, she shed some tears and she laughed out loud, and on the last session she shed tears of joy. The Traumas had been disabled and were behind her, she no longer had claustrophobia, the panic attacks had stopped, she no longer felt angry and she was building up emotional resilience. She was looking forward to a promotion at work and believed she deserved it. She wanted to meet someone new but realised she didn’t need a relationship in order to be happy. She was positive and optimistic for the future. She had changed from feeling like a victim to feeling empowered. It was as if she found her real identity, her true self, at last. Debbie may come back to see me when she is ready to lose weight but for now she is enjoying having her confidence back, she feels like she has a new identity and is free to move forward with self-love.

If you suffer from PTSD, don’t be afraid to seek help. There are a lot of organisations that can help and support you. BWRT is one therapy that can help. For more information go to BWRT-Professionals
or drop me a line if you want to book a free consultation here.

10 Easy Steps To Self Hypnosis

Learn how to engage your imagination using self-hypnosis to create an empowering mindset that will enhance your success and achievement in any area of your life.

I’m lucky that I’ve always had a healthy imagination that works for my benefit. I can activate a happy or a funny scene in my mind at the drop of a hat and secretly smile or giggle on the inside. This enables me to stay calm and relaxed as I do what needs to be done, effectively.

Imagination is a powerful thing and can be used as a tool for success. The Law of Dominant Thought says that whatever we focus our attention on is what we get more of. Many successful people automatically use their imagination in the form of positive mental rehearsal. They see themselves succeeding, winning, doing well, speaking up, taking a chance and thinking positively, with the anticipation of getting positive results every time. When you imagine something vividly, your senses bring about the internal feelings that accompany the real success. It activates passion and creativity and it opens your mind up to bigger things. Walt Disney said “If you can dream it, you can do it”. And look at what he accomplished! Apparently it all started with one mouse.

The Brain and Self Hypnosis

Self hypnosis enhances brain function
By imagining something vividly, the area of the brain involved with actually doing that thing is stimulated and strengthened. In 2007 Time Magazine reported on a study carried out at Harvard Medical School involving two groups of students. Both groups were asked to practice a five-finger piano exercise, for two hours a day, for seven days. One group spent two hours a day playing piano in their minds, imagining the finger movements and practicing the exercise to the best of their ability. The second group played the piano exercise for real. In both groups, new neurons grew and were reinforced, and the brain area involved with piano playing was strengthened. Imagination really is more powerful than you think. It grows new neural pathways in the brain.

When it comes to the way we live our lives on a day-to-day basis, our imagination plays a vital role. We respond to situations according to what we think about them. Circumstances are neutral in meaning. Thoughts lead to feelings, feelings lead to choices and choices lead to action or non-action, which in turn leads to results. You can imagine the worst or the best happening, the brain doesn’t care, it will activate the good or the bad feelings that go with it. Dopamine is part of the reward system of the brain and when we create positive expectation in our mind we experience the feel-good factor, created by dopamine. The more dopamine that is produced, the better we feel and the more motivated we are to seek out pleasure and reap the rewards of success.

Self Hypnosis helps Anxiety

Social Anxiety is eased with self-hypnosis
Compare the following stories: Jane suffers from social anxiety. She is invited to a party and she begins to worry for a few days leading up to the event. She is agitated and keeps thinking about what will happen at the party. She doesn’t sleep well and has nightmares about things going wrong. She imagines no-one will talk to her, she will blush if they do, she will look awkward and won’t know what to say to anyone, she might make a fool of herself, she will probably be on her own anyway so what’s the point of even going? She gets herself into a state of nervous exhaustion. It’s not worth it, so she stays at home. She misses out.

Jane came to me for hypnotherapy. After some imagination training in self-hypnosis, Jane gets invited to another party. This time it’s different. She practices self-hypnosis at home. She gets excited thinking of people smiling at her, welcoming her in and saying how lovely it is to see her. She imagines herself chatting easily and effortlessly, asking questions and listening to others. She sees herself genuinely complimenting a friend on how she looks. She notices that she feels calm when she is introduced to strangers, and she feels relaxed and comfortable in her own skin when she engages in conversation. She takes her time in replying to any questions and she smiles a lot. This time, Jane used her creative imagination to predict a positive outcome, she enhanced her thinking and she prepared with mental rehearsal. Guess what? she really did go to the party and had a lovely time. Now Jane’s brain has new neural pathways that confirm she can go to parties and enjoy herself. Jane’s imagination and her thoughts created a future that was in line with the story she told herself.

Sports Professionals use self-hypnosis too

It is well known that athletes use positive mental rehearsal to prepare to win. Mike Tyson (Boxing Champion); David Beckham (England Football Captain); and Tiger Woods (Golfing hero) all used self-hypnosis and mental rehearsal to enhance performance.

Hypnosis helps you to become more absorbed and focussed on things that are going on inside your mind, enhancing your creative imagination and establishing new neural pathways in the brain which help you to move towards your goals easily and effectively.

What Can Self Hypnosis Be Used For?

Self-hypnosis can help with achieving any goal you set for yourself, whether it be public speaking, weight loss, insomnia, confidence building, motivation, doing well in an interview – you name it. In fact anything that is realistically possible for you to achieve, self-hypnosis makes it easier. No matter how big or small a goal, you can achieve it quicker and easier by focusing your mind on the the action plan, seeing yourself doing the things you need to do, in order to move toward success, and reaping the rewards of achievement.

The Benefits of self-hypnosis

• your heart rate slows down to a healthy rhythm;
• your blood pressure is reduced slightly;
• you activate the parasympathetic nervous system, also known as the Rest & Repair system;
• your immune system is enhanced;
• stress hormones are de-activated;
• your sleep is improved;
• your emotional wellbeing is enhanced;
• it helps you to achieve your goals;

So what happens in self-hypnosis?

Self-hypnosis is the act of putting yourself into a relaxed state of focussed awareness and inner absorption whilst remaining consciously in control, with the purposeful intention of achieving a goal. Simply put, it’s a trance like state of purposeful awareness. Anyone can do it, adults and children alike. In fact children are very good at it. It’s an entirely natural phenomenon like dreaming or day-dreaming. It can be likened to the state just before falling asleep or just as you are waking up. Your brainwaves slow down to alpha and you experience a re-set to balance your central nervous system. All you have to do is relax, keep an open mind and be motivated to want something to happen and follow the 10 Easy Steps below. There are many different way to enter self-hypnosis. This is one method that involves a breathing technique. You can practice self-hypnosis at home or somewhere else – as long as you are not interacting with other people and you are in a safe environment. Never when driving!

Here’s how to do it: Read all the instructions before you do the exercise. You could record the steps in your own words, onto your phone, leaving enough time between each step to carry out the instruction.

10 Easy Steps To Self Hypnosis

Imagine
Believe
Achieve

Step 1 Prepare Yourself – sit down comfortably, arms and legs uncrossed, and think about what you want to achieve;
Step 2 Create a powerful positive statement, suggestion, or an affirmation;
Step 3 Focus on your breath and breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth;
Step 4 Take 3 slow deep breaths, exhaling for longer than you inhale, and on the third breath out close your eyes;
Step 5 Continue to breathe slowly and focus on your breath as you count down from 10 to 0 on the next 10 breaths;
Step 6 With each number you count down, say the words “deeper relaxed” in your mind, as you exhale slowly;
Step 7 On Zero, repeat your powerful positive statement, suggestion or affirmation a few times;
Step 8 Imagine yourself successfully achieving that goal, bringing it to life in your mind, with as many details as possible, take as long as you want;
Step 9 Sit quietly for a while and allow any thoughts or observations to surface. When you are ready, slowly count up from 1 to 5, imagine the energy flowing freely through your body and wiggle your fingers or toes;
Step 10 Open your eyes on 5

Guidelines:

Give yourself 10-15 minutes to do the exercise, at a time when you won’t be disturbed. When creating a powerful positive statement, suggestion or affirmation, always be positive and say what you want, not what you don’t want. Remember, what you focus on, you get more of.
Here are some examples:

• “I am now relaxing completely and letting go of tension”.
• “As I relax, my pain subsides”.
• “The more I relax the more confident I become”.
• “I can speak up and remain calm at my team meeting”.
• “No matter what is going on around me, I remain calm ”.
• “I am strong and powerful”.

When visualising success, imagine it is the easiest thing in the world, and completely natural for you to do this. Be purposeful, and stay focused. Whatever you visualise, make sure to activate the emotional response, as if it’s already happened.  This is very powerful combination.  Without emotion, visualisation is not as effective.

If you need to open your eyes suddenly for any reason, just tell yourself “I’m wide awake”.

Once you have done it a few times, you won’t need the instructions any more. Practice using self-hypnosis and enhance your life in many ways. If you need help, get in touch with me for a one-to-one.

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Advanced Hypnotherapy Techniques That Make Quitting Easy

• You really want to quit smoking for good but you worry what it might be like when you don’t have a cigarette?
• You know you are sabotaging your health but you are afraid of the cravings?
• You resent the way the addiction has made you so dependant?
• You love it and hate it at the same time?
• The habit has taken over?
• You don’t like the way people avoid close contact because of the smell on your breath or on your clothes?
• You believe that it is too hard to quit?
• You are afraid to try (again) and fail?

Addiction is Not Your Fault

I want to help you to stop smoking permanently and completely, which is why I have studied the nature of nicotine addiction.

I use advanced psychological techniques that work in the part of the brain where addiction lives.

In nicotine addiction, the dopamine system which is part of the reward system in the brain, is hijacked by the chemicals in cigarettes. It feels like it’s doing you a favour, but it’s actually a cruel trick. It’s like falling in love with a poisonous snake.

The reward system, which is part of the survival system, unwittingly turns against you, causing you to crave something that ultimately damages or destroys you.

The human is the only animal on the planet that smokes, most other animals run away from smoke.

It doesn’t make sense, but the addiction lives in the part of the brain that can’t think, so it can’t make sense of it.

The problem is the brain, not you.

In other words… (worth repeating again) it’s not your fault!

Neuroscience has given us the answer. We now understand how to activate neuroplacticity using advanced hypnotherapy and brain working techniques.

Some of the Benefits of Quitting

• Experience both immediate and long term health benefits
• Reduce your risk of serious illness
• Learn how to overcome the physical, mental and emotional aspects of addiction
• Save money
• Breathe easier
• Have more energy
• Enhance your taste buds
• Smell nicer
• Age slower
• Take back control

Recent research is now showing that stopping smoking may boost mental health. A recent review of studies suggests that people who stop smoking have less anxiety, depression, and stress compared with those who continue to smoke. [Ref: “Change in mental health after smoking cessation: systematic review and meta-analysis” (Published 13 February 2014 – BMJ 2014;348:g1151)]

We have known the benefits on physical health for many years, but now psychological health is shown to benefit too once those that give up are through the withdrawal stage.

The new research has looked at 26 different studies, measuring levels of anxiety, depression, stress, positive attitude, and quality of life. Most of the studies followed the people for several months or years.

What the new study says

Compared with people who continued to smoke, those who stopped smoking scored better in all the areas of mental health studied. The improvements were similar regardless of whether people had been diagnosed with a specific illness, such as depression, or not.

What does this mean for me?

If you would like to stop smoking but are concerned about how this might affect your mood or level of stress, these findings are encouraging.

Motivation

The biggest motivation comes from your most emotionally powerful reason to quit. Maybe you want to look and feel younger – you might be noticing more wrinkles or saggy skin than you would like to see; you are probably wasting a lot of money on cigarettes per month and would rather do something else with the money; maybe you try avoid physical contact with your children because of your breath or the smell of smoke on your skin and find you are missing out on precious moments. Only you can find that motivation. Once you do, the rest is straight forward.

Mindset

If you think it’s going to be hard, it will be hard. However if you ask for help, there are ways of making the path to non-smoking so much easier. Hypnotherapy helps you to create the mindset of being a winner.

Cancer Research

Cancer Research UK says smoking kills five times more people than road accidents, overdoses, murder, suicide and HIV together. Stopping smoking has immediate health benefits. It lowers your blood pressure and reduces your pulse after only 20 minutes. Within eight hours, oxygen and carbon monoxide levels in your blood return to normal. After two days your sense of taste and smell start to return. Long-term benefits include reduced risk of coronary heart disease, stroke, lung cancer and other cancers.

Action Plan

If you are already looking at ways to quit, look no further – book an appointment today and choose freedom.

Hypnotherapy Reprogrammes The Mind for Success

Every time you finish a cigarette and put it out – you effectively stop smoking, so in one respect, you stop smoking several times a day.

Hypnotherapy can help you to never pick up a cigarette again.

Hypnotherapy has been shown to re-programme the mind with new beliefs, so that you don’t just stop smoking, you effectively get help to become a non-smoker.

Is Hypnotherapy a Last Resort?

A Stop Smoking client may arrive at my door as a last resort.

I have seen defeat, guilt and stress on the faces of most people who have tried and failed to give up. He/she will probably already have tried the patches, the electric cigarette, the gum or the lozenges or read a book about how to do it. The body language of such a client tells me more than words could ever say. There may be additional worries about weight gain, anxiety attacks or stress if they do manage to give up.

Many smokers are in denial of health issues, they just ignore them.

Hypnotherapy brings you face to face with your fears about quitting, and helps you to overcome them.

Discover the freedom that hypnotherapy brings.

The Stop Smoking Programme

My new Stop Smoking Programme is designed to work with you as an individual, because we are all different. and we have different life circumstances.

I don’t work with everyone. I only work with people who are ready to quit and committed to permanently and completely stop smoking.

When you sign up with me, you will have a three month window and if there is any sign of temptation you can call me straight away and book in a further session. This is usually not necessary, but I offer you a further session anyway to deal with any stresses in life.

Because you are an individual, I ask a lot of questions and I use the information you provide to create a programme that is tailored to your needs.

On the BIG DAY, the session lasts about two and a half hours. There is also some preparatory work to be done before hand. The follow up session is anytime within 3 months.

Contact me now if you are serious about quitting and book a free 20 minute chat, or a one-hour discovery session (at a small cost) to ask any questions and find out if we are a good fit to work together.

IF YOU ARE READY NOW

Contact me now and let’s get started. There is no time like the present. Give yourself the gift of quitting. You deserve to be a free-breather.